Monday, March 19, 2018

Busy Week!

Oi todos!

First, I want to let you all know that we have a transfer Wednesday.  I will be leaving Jordão and Elder F----- for an area called Jardim Massangana to be companions with Elder D. S----.  He has been out a year and a little in the mission, so I can definitely learn a lot from him.  This is his second transfer in this area, so he will know lots of people that we can go to work with. I'm pretty excited.  It is not far from my current area, but it's in a different zone.  I will be just a couple of blocks from the beach, so that will be a little tough.

It's going to be sad to leave my first area, but it will be good for my growth I think.  All the members in Jordão are saying that I have learned everything I can here.  They all remember that I came here not knowing how to speak hardly any Portuguese, but now I speak Portuguese (somewhat). It is definitely coming along.  I'm so thankful for all that the members did here to help me learn Portuguese and to help me grow as a missionary.  Jordão will always have a big space in my heart!

We had a split this week, and I went to Muribeca with Elder Haynie!  He was in my group when we got here.  He was in my CTM District.  So it was awesome!  I learned so much, and it was cool to see that 5 months ago we didn't know how to speak hardly any Portuguese, but we went the whole day speaking it like it was nothing. It was just normal.  So that was cool to see. We have come so far in just 4 months. It is incredible how much the Lord is helping us. Also, Dad, one member works at a hot dog stand and made 30 cm hot dogs for each of us!  It was way good!  We woke up at 6 am and went for a run, and Elder Haynie chose a route with some hills, so it was really fun!

We had a Baptism!!!!!! Last Sunday a 9 year old girl named Anna J---- came to us and said she wanted to be baptized.  She had been going to church for 3 years, and her dream was always to be baptized by her uncle.  So we went there every day and taught her everything.  She understood it all, and she was baptized Saturday.  She is really smart.  

R---- and J--- have a date set for marriage -- 18th of April.  It's sad that I wont get to see it all happen, but its good to know that He will be baptized soon.  

For the first time this transfer, we hit our goal for contacts as a companionship.  Elder F---- finally started doing at least one contact a day, and with some additional hard work, we reached our goal.  So it was a great way to finish the transfer -- with a baptism and a goal finally reached.

With regard to the brother in your ward who gave his talk in less than perfect English, I feel the same way that he does.  It's tough at times trying to express yourself in front of lots of people when you don't know their language perfectly. But I have great respect for those who are trying their best and believe the Spirit makes up for language barriers. It sounds like it did in your meeting on Sunday as well. 

I hope all is well with you guys!  Love you all!

Love 
Elder Nielson




Monday, March 12, 2018

Batismo??? Não :(

Oi!

We had a baptism marked for this Saturday, and when we called to tell him we were heading to the chapel for the interview Friday, R----- started saying he wanted to put it off until after his divorce was finalized.  We told him to come to the chapel so we could talk a little, and he said he would come.  Then his phone was shut off.  Elder H----- and I ran to his house, and eventually found R----- in his sister's house.  He was hiding there with two members that are friends of his.  And one of them was telling him that if he is baptized he will be excommunicated.  He was married, and they separated 3 years ago.  He recently started dating a member, and she showed the church to him.  They aren't breaking the Law of Chastity, so we there is no problem that way.  His divorce will be finalized in 3 or so weeks.  But he believed the member saying this stuff.  So he didn't want to be baptized.

It's good that he wants to do it right. He really has a desire to be baptized, and I think he really believes that it's a problem to.  He wasn't using it as an excuse to not be baptized.  But its interesting to see how the devil can even work through members to destroy something good.  So that all made this weekend tough. 

Our area is good, we had a baptism fall through, but we have another person that wants to be baptized this week.  We don't know her name yet, but we will meet here tonight at 6pm.  She has been attending our ward, her parents are less active, and her uncle invited us to teach her everything again so she can be baptized Saturday.  So we will see how that goes.

We had interviews with President Houseman, and he helped me a lot.  I asked how I can motivate my companion, and he said "just keep it up.   You can do everything you can, keep trying harder every day,  but if he doesn't act for himself, you can't force him to do anything."  He shared a cool experience from when he was talking with Elder Bednar.  Elder Bednar talked about a list of tips for missionaries in the Bednar family.  Every return missionaries adds to the list, and they only share it with members of the family when they leave for a mission.  

One son added this to the list: "You really have two missions; your area, and your companion."  President gave me some advice that applied to this, and I left there feeling a lot better.  It's still tough not having someone that wants to work as hard as I do, but it's all for a reason.  

We are doing good here. It's still really hot, and I can't wait for it to start cooling off a little bit, but that won't be for a while.  

Love you all, and hope my email finds you all well and safe!

Elder Nielson

Monday, March 5, 2018

Ola todo!

First I would like to talk a little about Elder Bednar!

He is a little shorter than he appears in General Conference.  When he walked in, we all stood up, and he was hard to see. He is pretty short.  But he was awesome.  First thing he said, " You are not going to write everything I say."  We all had started writing what he was saying, and looked up really confused.  He wanted us to write what the Spirit was saying to us, and not what he was saying.  I entered the meeting fasting, and it made it all the better!  The Spirit was so strong.  He just had a question and answer session going. We studied four talks prior to the meeting, and he asked what we learned, and everyone was answering, and he would ask one follow up question.  It was really cool!



He taught us in a very straight forward relaxed way.  He didn't give a talk, but rather asked us questions and testified and taught as we answered.  It was such a good experience.  He was so calm and every word made you think.  It was really a cool experience.

One comment that stuck out to me was this: "Our prayers start when we say Amen."  Meaning that we need to pray with faith, but faith is a principle of action, so we need to get up and work to make these things happen.  If we pray for the people that weren't at church this week, we have to go out and bring them to church.  It was a cool thought.

Last week at the lan house Elder F----- was watching YouTube. When I saw I told him to leave it, and he was a little angry.  During Companionship inventory, I was praying to talk about this without having any contention.  And that's just what happened. I asked what I can do better, and he opened up and started saying he needed to be better. We left there with a determination to be better. But nothing has changed. So I'm a little frustrated. On top of that, an elder asked me this week "Has he told you he has permission to use Facebook?"  I said, "Yes. President authorized it because his family can't talk any other way."  He said, "No. He says that to all his comps, but it's not true."  

So I asked President Houseman in my email, and we will see what the truth of the matter is. He started talking about going home one transfer early because he is dying.  But then he talks about everything that he is going to watch and buy when he gets home.  So I'm a little worried about him.

We spent the last two P-days at home with our district playing cards and eating food.  I put a picture of the couscous that we ate today for you, Dad.  Also put a picture of a worn out Elder F----- sleeping.  

We did however manage to find some great investigators this week.  We should have one or 2 baptisms coming up here in a little bit.  We have some great investigators.  Rafael, Dora, Anderson, Elba, Marilha, Edimilson, Maira, Felipe, Alice, Lucas. If you could keep them in your prayers, that would be great.  

The first 4 are progressing, and Rafael will be baptized this Saturday, or next Saturday. We have to see when we talk to him tomorrow.

One thing that I am learning to do a lot better is to just talk to people and share the gospel.  I'm trying to meet my goals: I am doing a minimum of 5 contacts between lessons, and I can really see it helping me improve as a missionary.  So I am doing great. Don't worry about me, I am fine! 

I hope all is well at home!

Love
Elder Nielson





Monday, February 26, 2018

5 Meses!!!

Olá Todos!

This week was pretty good.  We taught 14 new people on Thursday.  We gave an invitation for one member to invite some people over for a family night. He told us he would try to think of some people, and when we went there, he had brought 10 people!  Eight neighbors and two of his sisters that live way out in the interior. It was really cool to see him take our invite and do something great with it!

We have two people that can be baptized here in a little while.  One is R-----.  He called a friend that's a member and asked to talk with us.  We came and taught him, and he accepted our baptismal invitation and came to church yesterday.  We will be working a lot with him the next two weeks, but he is really cool!

The other is M---- d-- D----, or D---.  She was a referral from one of our members.  The member gave us her name only for the fact that she isn't part of the Assembleia De Deus...  But she is really good. She came to church with us too, and she really liked it.  We taught her son last night, and he was really interested too.  But he was amazed that we got her to go to church.  He said that she really doesn't like church.  But we all know that it was the Spirit that helped her have the desire to go.

We had a split this week, and I was with our DL.  At the end, he said, "Your goal last time was to talk more with people. How do you think you're doing with that?"  And we sat there for a couple of minutes and looked at how much better I was at just communicating.  Asking for directions, opening my mouth to introduce the gospel, and initiating lessons.  So that was something that really gave me some hope.  

During the split, we were walking and a dog started barking really loud.  Elder P------- put his hand out and said "Cala Boca!"  Or "shut your mouth", and the dog was silent.  We both turned our heads to look at each other with amazement on our faces.  It was pretty funny, and he said, "I have the priesthood."  He said it in English, and I almost died laughing. 

But anyways, things are going good here. I hope that everything is good back home, Love you all!

Elder Nielson


Monday, February 19, 2018

I think my comp is watching me....

Ola todos!

First, we had a baptism fall through this week, so that made Saturday and Sunday a bit tough.  F----- has been an investigator forever! He knows all the names of missionaries for the past 10 years.  He just has a fear of the water.  So we will be trying to help him if we can find him.

We still had our schedule for Carnival this week.  So I got to read a lot in Jesus the Christ.  It is really cool.  I am going to keep reading in it when I have free time.  

Probably three or four times during this week I woke up at about 5 am, and when I looked over at Elder F-----, he was just sitting there with his eyes opened staring at me.  So that was pretty awkward.  I would role over and just pretend I saw nothing.  One night he was laying in bed as I was reading, and I looked over.  He had his head under his pillow, but he was watching me from under his pillow.  So we will see if this continues and what is up with it.  It will be something interesting, that's for sure.

We ran a couple of times this week, and one morning the bugs were pretty wicked.  I took a picture, because when we got back home, they were everywhere.  I had them in my eyes, my mouth, it was crazy!  

Today we played soccer in Massaraduba and had a little barbeque.  It was pretty fun.  It rained on us for an hour straight as we played and it made for a great time.  We have some pretty cool people in our mission!

The work is still going strong here.  We are struggling a bit with helping people keep commitments, especially going to church.  We can leave and try to drag 10 people to church, and everyone of them will avoid going.  It's pretty tough, but we have a split this week, and that will definitely be something I ask for help with. Oh, and Elder Bednar will be visiting our mission. I'm really excited for that. 

I will be trying to focus on ways to motivate others, and use this transfer as a time to grow and strengthen my language and interactions with others.  These are things I can for sure control.  If we are walking somewhere , I can always stop and make a contact in the street.  

I hope you all have a great week!
Thanks for all you guys do!

Elder Nielson



Tuesday, February 13, 2018

Novo Transferência

Ola todos!

This week has been kind of crazy with transfers, and Carnival...  First, we had a family night Monday with a bunch of members, and took a photo because it was Elder Carrari's last time.  Then Tuesday we had a little party for Elder Carrari and it was good.  Then Wednesday was transfers.  The Mission has missionaries travel to their new areas alone now, so when Elder Carrari left, I had to go meet up with our district leader and wait for Elder Felipe to come to Jordão.  

He is really interesting.  He is from São Paulo, not right in the city but in the part that is a little more country. He really likes Anime.  He has this transfer and 2 more before he goes home, so I'm hoping that's going to give him some fire to work hard.

To meet Elder Felipe, I got stuck on a bus for almost two hours. But I made it to him without problems.  We were able to work Wednesday and Thursday, but Friday we had an adjusted schedule for Carnival.  From Friday until next Tuesday, we will leave our house at 8:30 am and return at 5:30 pm.  We do our studies at night, and with our extra time, we will read Jesus the Christ.  It is really interesting.  

Carnival is pretty wild. We had huge block parties last night that just had music blaring until really late.  Everyone was drinking and dancing, but we were in our house before it was really up and going.  I'm surprised that we found a Lan house open to be able to get emails and write, because during these weeks, they just party all night and sleep all day.

But we are safe here and trying to avoid these parties as much as possible.  Last night the party was pretty much at our front door and, from what members have said, it won't be the last night like that. So we are trying to pound as much work into our day as possible.

Love you guys!

Elder Nielson







Monday, February 5, 2018

Transferência!


Oi!

I just got my transfer, and I will be staying in Jordão!  My comp will be Elder H. Felipe.  We don't know anything about him, but I am really excited.  Elder Carrari received a call this morning from President Houseman and will be a secretary of the mission.  He will work in the office with all the references.  It's weird that I will be working here with someone else.  I'm thankful for him and everything that he taught me!

I just learned that Elder Haynie from my CTM district will be in my district again!  He is such a cool and good missionary.  He plays the piano better than anyone that I know!  He is the comp of our district leader, so I will have the opportunity to learn from him during a split at some point!

This week we saw a chicken sleeping in a tree, so I had to take a picture of that.  

We had a lot of contacting this week, and I am feeling good about that.  We have tons of people to start working with now.  So this week will probably be a lot of visiting these people that we talked to and beginning to teach them.

Barbara, one pf the members here received her mission call last night.  She is going to Cubá!  So that's pretty cool.  And Wallison will be getting his call this week.  It definitely brings back a lot of memories of when I opened my call.  

So we just got our rules for Carnival, and we will return to our house at 7:30 and do our studies at night.  This is just because Carnival is Crazy!  From what I have learned it is just 3 weeks of fantasy. So everyone has a fantasy, and goes to huge parties all over the place.  Gabriel explained that its really hot here, so people typically don't wear clothes when they go out. So yeah, we will be careful with that.  Everyone here calls Carnival Apostosia or apostacy because is just breaking the word of wisdom and Law of Chastity everywhere.

Things are great here In Jordão, and I am ready spend another transfer here.  Time to go to work!









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